The man’s rejection is the woman’s mirror, allowing her to recognize where she is still denying herself.
The masculine moves towards the feminine, and the feminine receives… NOW this law of nature may be set right again.
The reality is often different.
The woman’s femininity is damaged and she has never learned that she is allowed to feel EVERYTHING—light and shadow. She suppresses her intuition and lacks trust.
As a result, she has lost touch with the divine and feels inferior. Therefore, she seeks external validation and recognition, often falling under pressure to perform and exerting control. She helps others and moves towards something rather than receiving.
She is naturally connected to a higher level (upward-feeling-receiving), and the man is rooted (downward-grounding-structure).
She denies herself deep within her soul and seeks a man who gives her permission to BE everything.
But she is looking for the solution in the wrong place.
It is a bottomless pit that no one can fill.
Seeking the validation and security she believes she needs to open up and surrender completely, she looks outside herself and starts taking action herself. (Masculine energy)
She takes over the role of conqueror from the man. She ensures that she is conquered herself. She does everything to ensure that he chooses her.
GIVE AFFECTION TO RECEIVE AFFECTION.
SHE GIVES HIM SECURITY AND DOES IT RIGHT FOR HIM
SHE SEES HIM AS A SOURCE OF POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE FEELINGS
SHE GIVES HERSELF SEXUALLY FAR TOO QUICKLY
Even though she is not really surrendering: physically, yes — emotionally, no.
A woman who doesn’t acknowledge her femininity and her queenhood is bound to attract a man who also denies his own parts. The former takes on the function of a mirror on the outside.
She may practise doing NOTHING, directing her energy towards her heart and healing the parts that prevent her from perceiving herself as the source again. The separation in her heart dissolves as a result.
In this way, she automatically brings a man into the masculinity she so longs for. Only when she lets go and stops taking action are men compelled to move and become active again.
The energy flow moves away from the man and towards herself. Then a pull is created, and above all, SELF-LOVE is born.
Because of strong conditioning, we often experience this kind of surrender as fear. Fear of loss, of being hurt, of…? That is why the longing remains unfulfilled.
In our Healing Journey, I show you how to release your deepest parental wounds at their core so that you can live a fulfilling partnership on a soul level: Get Healing Journey — Heart Opening
