Can you remember the moment when you made the decision at home, or wherever you were, that you wanted to love deeply or experience intense intimacy? You want more from life. You want a partnership on equal terms, where each one can develop his or her full potential. To experience something extraordinary, unique, or something like that???
Congratulations!
Twin souls meet when they are ALMOST ready to experience unconditional, intense, and divine love. They are very wise souls who often know each other from many lifetimes. Not everyone meets their twin soul physically, but when they meet, there’s no escaping.
You are and will remain a twin soul for the rest of your life. (Yes, I struggled with that thought at first, too. )
The fateful encounter between twin souls.
Most people long so much to meet their soul love or soul partner. After all, it is the deepest and purest love there is. You share a consciousness and think: Wonderful — this is the perfect complement. Isn’t that what everyone longs for and wants?
But a TRUE soul love is your mirror. This is the person who shows you everything that holds you back. They draw your attention to yourself so that you change your life and unfold your full potential. This brings out your most beautiful light so you know which way to go, and at the same time your darkest shadows so you know what you can work on and what is holding you back.
TWIN SOULS — ONE SOUL IN TWO BODIES.
The terms „person who lets go“ and „emotional clarifier“ have become so commonplace that I’m using them here as well.
At first, I considered going public with this topic and sharing my experiences, but since I have an academy focused on TRANSFORMATION, it was a logical step.
Live what is REAL.
People come to us from three fields: LOVE, BUSINESS, HEALTH.
But one thing unites them – they want to live DEEPLY.
It is my calling to free people from conditioning and resolve traumas that prevent them from expressing their true core. Soul love fits perfectly with that.
We push people through pain, restoring their basic trust to lead extraordinary lives on a financial, mental, physical, and emotional level.
We start where everyone else stops.
And yes, when I met my twin soul, I first realized how great this calling is and how much I still hide it. Likewise, it was never my plan to accompany twin souls through the process, but isn’t life what happens while we have other plans?
I simply surrendered to life and trust my impulses.
This goes DEEP, and I report and write to show you in the best possible way how you can resolve the karma, the fears, vows, and entanglements. No, not just because that shows you how you can arrive in the relationship you desire. That doesn’t matter at a certain point anyway, but primarily I do it to show you that you can love and express yourself. Life has so much more to offer. I think choosing a relationship alone as a goal is far too little for you.
You deserve EVERYTHING! So do not be so modest.
You were sent into this process because you CAN!
As often as I’ve cursed it… it’s a gift – because your twin soul gives you to yourself, and no one on earth can ever do more for you.
You’ve probably experienced heartbreak many times and cried your heart out for days as a teenager. I was even married and cried like a baby during my divorce. But what I experienced with my twin soul is the most painful thing one can imagine and, at the same time, the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me. That’s why I recommend you not to talk to too many people about it – no one can even begin to understand where you’ve gotten yourself into or what you’re going through.
Your twin soul opens a door in your heart that leads directly to the heart of your soul. But you didn’t even know this door existed before and we do not even talk about the space behind it. Your twin soul feels the same way, by the way.
But why can this love not just be lived?
It is the purest form of LOVE and repels everything that is not pure love. That is why everything we have learned and believed about love, everything that keeps us small, must make way. Nobody could mirror this to you better than he or she. He presses every button and is so thorough.
To be honest, both of you have the same fears.
What differs is the patterns that each of you has developed to avoid love. Love wasn’t safe for either of you as children, and so you’ve developed countless strategies to avoid it. You want to avoid the pain, but you’re essentially avoiding yourself.
Pattern:
The one learning to let go chases the other person. They naturally think they are completely ready for love. After all, it is the emotional clarifier who does not want it. Yes, yes, I know. But if you are so ready, why do you choose men who are emotionally unavailable?
You’ve learned to create good feelings externally instead of internally because you can’t handle bad moods or imbalances. You compensate for these immediately. That’s why the needs of others are often more important to you than your own. You’ve learned to HELP. As a child, you only received love in return for something. You long for a perfect world and are an emotional person.
The Emotional Clearer avoids love on principle and doesn’t particularly like to feel things. He has built himself a life based on social security: a relationship/family that works well, a secure job, and a good reputation. There is only little room for love. Love wasn’t secure during childhood; it was negotiable. Therefore, those tend to be more head-driven.
At first, the one who lets go suffers greatly – the Emotional Clearer seems to have everything under control, but that can quickly change if you’re willing to address your fears (learning tasks).
And I often do not even like to say, “He is fine…” Imagine having a life in which your innermost self remains buried and unexpressed. A life consisting of superficial acquaintances, a relationship without depth and a job that does not reflect your core. Concealing all this takes strength. Those of us learning to let go would not endure it for even a single day.
So how well can he really be doing?
You’re learning from him how to set boundaries and use your mind more effectively. He’s learning from you how to love.
Dear who is letting go, the only important thing is to direct the energy towards you. This process is in your hands. The emotional clarifier/ clearer grows in your slipstream, and he won’t move an inch if you don’t complete your learning tasks. So, stop waiting or running to the card oracle. Yes, he loves you with all his heart; you don’t need a medium for that.
I hereby officially confirm this.
At some point, they’ll even say or show it. I’ve felt it many times, but that’s part of the process, too. You’re learning to trust your own perception, and whether he denies it or not is his problem.
You have your own body wisdom.
But you are the one steering this process. Yes, I know, it would be so wonderful to do nothing and have him simply come along and heal all your wounds. But aren’t you gradually getting fed up with your own neediness?
You need to be thoroughly fed up — not with him, but with your own patterns and your own inability to accept and love yourself unconditionally. With allowing yourself to be placed second, drawn close when it suits him and pushed away when it suits him. With this lack of boundaries within yourself.
That’s why I encourage you to use him as a mirror:
He rejects you — what do you reject within yourself?
He says you should find someone else — why would you like to be someone else?
He blocks you — where do you block yourself?
He only wants an affair — where do you only want half of yourself?
You are only his second choice — why do you put yourself and your needs second here?
(Ah! You put him before yourself too — that’s right!)
He shows you exactly how you treat yourself. Go through the pain and resolve it. You cannot avoid it anyway. Do not wait. You are not a victim.
When I entered this process a year ago, it terrified me to learn that some people learning to let go make no progress for fifteen years or more.
“Sabrina, I can do this on my own.” Even that prevents you from living this love: Why do you want to be strong? Behind every strength is a protection that keeps you small.
You know, it’s about living your greatness. Where is there room for him if you can do everything on your own? Where’s the trust?
So, you see – there’s no way to get around it.
Here, I’ve outlined the learning tasks for you again. At the beginning, the learning tasks are so contradictory that they can’t be mastered together. Everyone has to do it for him- or herself. At a certain point, you would trigger each other too harshly, and that’s why this ON-OFF is not uncommon among twin souls.
You’re afraid of losing him, but he’s afraid of losing himself.
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