For approximately 19,000 years, we humans spent time at the level of the root chakra.
It was all about survival.
Reproduction, hunger, survival…
We then ascended to the second chakra – the sacral chakra.
Religion played a major role here. We lived separate from ourselves, and FAITH ensured survival. God is there and I am here.
This took us enormously away from the truth.
We lived in this period for over 2,000 years.
Next came the solar plexus – we spent 200 years there.
Suddenly, we could achieve anything imaginable externally. Industry, power, control… But completely separate from our own inner truth…
Finally, we have (in my opinion) reached a fantastic point. 🙌
The Ascension to the Heart Chakra ❤️
What does this mean?
We perceive ourselves as separate and seek love and recognition outside ourselves…
Thus, we don’t see ourselves as a source or a creator.
We live constructs (professional, personal) that don’t correspond to our true BEING and work against ourselves. Because we HAVE TO function.
Many people therefore encounter soulmates, twin soules, etc., in order to wake up from the separateness of their own selves.
These encounters are so profound; they completely open the heart center and ensure that we recognize who we ourselves are. They force us to arrive at ourselves through various, old conditioning processes (which are brought to the surface by the depth of love).
The ego is completely catapulted. This love reflects our own depth, which we can finally perceive.
We feel everything that prevents us from living this love.
We can heal all our wounded parts and take responsibility for ourselves.
This is a very painful process! But it is divine!
Because then the external search finally ends. It is the path to you! First, we have to understand that there is no duality in the heart. It includes everything and excludes nothing! Therefore, go through the door – to finally express your true BEING!
The protective walls of a soul mate.
When twin souls meet, it’s something like this:
Imagine two Rapunzel towers. One belongs to you, the other to your twin.
When you both recognize each other, the following happens:
The tower of the one who lets go, stays. You look out the window and think: Oh dear. The way down is long. But I want to go there. It would be great if the knight climbed to the top and rescued me and brought me down. 😊 And if they didn’t die, then they’re still alive today…
With the one who clears emotions, it’s different: The tower is blown up in seconds. The protection is gone. Completely. He’s standing there practically completely naked. And he thinks to himself: Oh shit, I have to run away or I’m destroyed. 😊
If you have a fear of loss, he feels it too.
You’re afraid of losing him, and he’s afraid of losing himself.
That’s why he withdraws, especially after particularly intense phases.
He denies you everything. Everything happens the way he wants it to, and he gives you nothing but the pure truth about what you believe about yourself.
And I hear you say: I would, but HE…
Until you realize that he’s reflecting back how much you despise yourself for who you truly are, and that it was never about you loving him, but about you wanting to be loved by him because you can’t do it yourself. Because you reject your own gifts, your talents, and your abilities, life had to send you someone who shows you how you think and feel about yourself.
At first, you take the path of healing for him in order to end up in a relationship. At some point, you do it for yourself.
It’s about living your femininity, and for that, you need a stable masculinity within you. In our coaching programs, we call it SAINT and WHORE.
The feminine demands nothing, it doesn’t even wait. It IS.
Have you ever considered that you’re not the person who should wait until he’s ready? Maybe he’s waiting until you are?
Time and time again, he’s been ready for a new round with you. He’s constantly shown you what you need to work on.
Maybe he’s waiting until your love is stable, until you’re established, until you’ve arrived, until you sit on your own throne and would never leave him again…?
Because he doesn’t want you small and needy, because he wants to see you BIG, because he wants you to reach your potential.
If he came even a second too early, you would throw your true calling and everything you’ve learned overboard in seconds.
For this, you can heal all your wounds, fears, and conditioning. Then you can strengthen your love for yourself and integrate it anew. Stability is your magic word 🙂
It’s incredibly painful, I know that because I’m on this path myself and have often screamed and vomited from the emotional pain. There’s a difference between crying out of self-pity and despair and crying because you’re feeling through an old wound.
But you met your twin flame because you can. Because you simply damn well can. I wish so much that you realize how all this pain isn’t there because you’re being punished, but because you’re allowed to heal and thereby become WHOLE.
Because you’re not suffering because of love, but because of everything that separates you from love.
You were chosen to live LOVE, and there’s a higher plan for you, one you can’t control, one that lifts you out of your small ego, one that wants to let you fly, one that’s bigger than you, one that wants to bring you into your potential.
A plan that brings you into unconditionality until you give yourself away to life.
A plan that sends your free will to hell. The universe loves you so much that it’s giving you the opportunity to send someone who will take you to your deepest issues and traumas.
Until you emerge from your ego and no longer want everything to be different, project it onto it or onto your environment, but learn to let pain, suffering, love, and happiness flow through your body. Because life wants to thwart your plans of “how something should be” so that you receive and recognize what is intended for you. So that you relinquish control, give yourself to life, and express yourself. With everything that IS.
You have met your twin soul – AGAIN – Because you can and because you are called to create something great.
Because you are not here ONLY to live a happy partnership.
Because you deserve to live to the fullest in all areas of life.
Because you deserve to be unconditionally at peace and to trust in life.
Because you are allowed to tear down all the walls you have built against love. Until you’ve removed every single stone from your Rapunzel tower yourself, reached the bottom, and stopped protecting yourself. So that closeness and love can flow.
Here’s our Healing Journey for you to resolve the deepest parental wounds from your past at their root:
Heart Opening – Healing Journey
With love,
Sabrina Spinnler