Can you remember the moment when you made the decision at home, or wherever you were, that you wanted to love deeply or experience intense intimacy? You want more from life. You want a partnership on equal terms, where each one can develop his or her full potential. To experience something extraordinary, unique, or something like that???
Congratulations! 😊
Twin soules meet when they are ALMOST ready to experience unconditional, intense, and divine love. They are very wise souls who often know each other from many lifetimes. Not everyone meets their twin soul physically, but when they meet, there’s no escaping.
You are and will remain a twin soul for the rest of your life. (Yes, I struggled with that thought at first, too. 😊)
O BODIES.
The terms “person who lets go” and “emotional clarifier” have become so commonplace that I’m using them here as well.
At first, I considered going public with this topic and sharing my experiences, but since I have an academy focused on TRANSFORMATION, it was a logical step.
Live what is REAL.
People come to us from three fields: LOVE, BUSINESS, HEALTH.
But one thing unites them – they want to live DEEPLY.
It is my calling to free people from conditioning and resolve traumas that prevent them from expressing their true core. Soul love fits perfectly with that.
We push people through pain, restoring their basic trust to lead extraordinary lives on a financial, mental, physical, and emotional level.
We start where everyone else stops. 😊
And yes, when I met my twin soul, I first realized how great this calling is and how much I still hide it. Likewise, it was never my plan to accompany twin souls through the process, but isn’t life what happens while we have other plans?
I simply surrendered to life and trust my impulses.
This goes DEEP, and I report and write to show you in the best possible way how you can resolve the karma, the fears, vows, and entanglements. No, not just because that shows you how you can arrive in the relationship you desire. That doesn’t matter at a certain point anyway, but primarily I do it to show you that you can love and express yourself. Life has so much more to offer. I think choosing a relationship alone as a goal is far too little for you. 😊
You deserve EVERYTHING! So don’t be so modest.
You were sent into this process because you CAN!
As often as I’ve cursed it… it’s a gift – because your twin soul gives you to yourself, and no one on earth can ever do more for you.
You’ve probably experienced heartbreak many times and cried your heart out for days as a teenager. I was even married and cried like a baby during my divorce. 😊 But what I experienced with my twin soul is the most painful thing one can imagine and, at the same time, the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me. That’s why I recommend you not to talk to too many people about it – no one can even begin to understand where you’ve gotten yourself into or what you’re going through.
Your twin soul opens a door in your heart that leads directly to the heart of your soul. But you didn’t even know this door existed before and we do not even talk about the space behind it. Your twin soul feels the same way, by the way.
But why can this love not just be lived?
It is the clearest form of LOVE and it denies everything that is not real and clear love. That is why everything we have learned about love and what we have believed, everything that keeps us small, needs to go. Nobody could show you this better than he or she. He uses all the buttons and he is very strict.
To be honest, both of you have the same fears.
That, what is different, are the patterns that each of you has developed to avoid love. Love wasn’t safe for either of you as children, and so you’ve developed countless strategies to avoid it. You want to avoid the pain, but you’re essentially avoiding yourself.
Pattern:
The person who lets go, runs after you. Those think they’re naturally completely ready for love. 😊 After all, it’s the emotional clarifier who doesn’t want it. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know. 😊 But if you’reready, why do you watch out for men who are emotionally unavailable?
You’ve learned to create good feelings externally instead of internally because you can’t handle bad moods or imbalances. You compensate for these immediately. That’s why the needs of others are often more important to you than your own. You’ve learned to HELP. As a child, you only received love in return. You long for a perfect world and are an emotional person.
The Emotional Clearer avoids love on principle and doesn’t particularly like to feel things. He has built himself a life based on social security: a relationship/family that works well, a secure job, and a good reputation. There is only little room for love. Love wasn’t secure during childhood; it was negotiable. Therefore, those tend to be more head-driven.
At first, the one who lets go suffers greatly – the Emotional Clearer seems to have everything under control, but that can quickly change if you’re willing to address your fears (learning tasks).
And I often don’t even like to say it: Those are fine… 😊 Imagine having a life in which your inner self remains buried and finds no expression. Consisting of superficial acquaintances, a relationship that doesn’t reflect your core. It takes energy to hide all of this. We, the people who let go, wouldn’t be able to endure it for a single day.
So, how can he really be doing?
You’re learning from him how to set boundaries and use your mind more effectively. He’s learning from you how to love.
Dear who is letting go, the only important thing is to direct the energy towards you. This process is in your hands. The emotional clarifier/ clearer grows in your slipstream, and he won’t move an inch if you don’t complete your learning tasks. So, stop waiting or running to the card oracle. Yes, he loves you with all his heart; you don’t need a medium for that.
I hereby officially confirm this.
At some point, they’ll even say or show it. I’ve felt it many times, but that’s part of the process, too. You’re learning to trust your own perception, and whether he denies it or not is his problem.
You have your own body wisdom.
But are you the one who controls this process. Yes, I know, it would be great not have to do anything and for him to just come and heal all your wounds.
But aren’t you getting fed up with your own neediness?You must be so fed up, not with him, but with your own patterns and your own inability to accept and love yourself unconditionally. With allowing yourself to be placed as second choice, letting him pull you along when it suits him, letting him push you away when it suits him. This limitlessness is within yourself.
That’s why I encourage you to use him as a mirror:
Is he rejecting you?
What are you rejecting within yourself?
Is he telling you to find someone else?
Why would you want to be someone else?
Is he blocking you?
Where are you blocking yourself?
Does he only want an affair?
Where do you only want half of yourself?
Are you only second choice?
Why are you putting yourself and your needs second here? (
Ah! 😊 You’re putting him before yourself too – right! )
He’s showing you exactly how you are with yourself.
Go through the pain and resolve it. You can’t avoid it anyway. Don’t wait. You’re not a victim.
It scared me to death when I ended up in this process a year ago that there are people who let go and don’t make any progress for 15 years or more.
Sabrina, I can do this on my own. Even that is preventing you from living this love: Why do you want to be strong? Behind every strength one can find a defense that belittles you.
You know, it’s about living your greatness. Where does that fit if you can do everything on your own? Where’s the trust?
So, you see – there’s no way to get around it.
Here, I’ve outlined the learning tasks for you again. At the beginning, the learning tasks are so contradictory that they can’t be mastered together. Everyone has to do it for him- or herself. At a certain point, you would trigger each other too harshly, and that’s why this ON-OFF is not uncommon among twin soules.
You’re afraid of losing him, but he’s afraid of losing himself.
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In deep love,
Sabrina Spinnler