When twin souls meet, it’s something like this:
Imagine two Rapunzel towers. One belongs to you, the other to your twin.
When you both recognize each other, the following happens:
The tower of the one who lets go stops. You look out the window and think: Oh dear. The way down is long. But I want to go there. It would be great if the knight climbed to the top and rescued me and brought me down. 😊
And if they didn’t die, then they’re still alive today…
It’s different with the one who clears emotions:
The tower is blown up in seconds. The protection is gone. Completely. He’s standing there practically completely naked.
And he thinks to himself: Oh shit, I have to run away or I’ll be destroyed. 😊
She could destroy me completely; I can’t allow that to happen.
He’s afraid of losing himself and everything he’s built.
You are an absolute goddess to him, and he loves you infinitely, and yes, you can trust that 100%.
ON OFF – BACK AND FORTH – WARM COLD.
It doesn’t work with or without – and let the games begin.
You are the heart person, he is the intellectual person.
He is too much in his head, you too much in your heart.
You can find a 50/50 balance. First with yourselves, and then it is also possible in connection.
With your twin flame, a lot happens unconsciously – with you, a lot happens consciously.
He is the material side. You are everything that is not material.
You show each other what is missing to be in harmony with yourself, not with the other.
That’s why change is often quickly visible for you and still hidden for him. You change everything in your life bit by bit and want to show it. He changes everything INTERNALLY and hides it.
If you have a fear of loss, he feels it too.
You are afraid of losing him, and he is afraid of losing himself.
That’s why he withdraws, especially after particularly intense phases.
He denies you everything. Everything happens the way he wants it to, and he gives you nothing but the pure truth about what you believe about yourself.
And I hear you say: I would, but HE…
Until you realize that he’s reflecting how much you despise yourself for who you truly are, and that it was never about you loving him, but about you wanting to be loved by him because you can’t do it yourself. Because you reject your own gifts, your talents, and your abilities, life had to send you someone who would show you how you think and feel about yourself.
At first, you take the path of healing for him in order to end up in a relationship. At some point, you do it for yourself.
It’s about living your femininity, and for that, you need a stable masculinity within you. In our coaching programs, we call it SAINT and WHORE.
The feminine demands nothing, it doesn’t even wait. It IS.
Have you ever considered that you’re not the person who should wait until he’s ready? Maybe he’s waiting until you’re ready?
Time and time again, he’s been ready for a new round with you. He’s constantly shown you what you need to work on.
Maybe he’s waiting until your love is stable, until you’re established, until you’ve arrived, until you sit on your own throne and would never leave him again…?
Because he doesn’t want you small and needy, because he wants to see you BIG, because he wants you to reach your potential.
If he came just a second too early, you’d throw your true calling and everything you’ve learned overboard in seconds.
In exchange, you can heal all your wounds, fears, and conditioning. Then you can strengthen your love for yourself and integrate it anew. Stability is your magic word 🙂
It’s incredibly painful, I know that because I’m on this path myself and have often screamed and vomited from the emotional pain. There’s a difference between crying out of self-pity and despair and crying because you’re resolving an old wound.
But you met your twin soul because you can. Because you just damn well can. I wish so much that you realize how all this pain isn’t there because you’re being punished, but because you’re allowed to heal and thereby become WHOLE. Because you’re not suffering because of love, but because of everything that separates you from love. You were chosen to live LOVE, and there’s a higher plan for you, one you can’t control, one that lifts you out of your small ego, one that wants to let you fly, one that’s bigger than you, one that wants to bring you into your potential.
A plan that brings you into unconditionality until you give yourself away to life. A plan that sends your free will to hell. The universe loves you so much that it gives you the opportunity to send someone who will take you to your deepest issues and traumas.
Until you emerge from your ego and no longer want everything to be different, projecting it onto it or onto your environment, but instead learn to let pain, suffering, love, and happiness flow through your body. Because life wants to thwart your plans of “how something should be” so that you receive and recognize what is intended for you. So that you relinquish control, give yourself to life, and express yourself. With everything that IS.
You’ve met your twin soule – AGAIN – Because you can and because you are called to create something great.
Because you aren’t here ONLY to live a happy relationship.
Because you deserve to live to the fullest in all areas of life.
Because you deserve to be unconditionally at peace and to trust in life.
Because you are allowed to tear down all the walls you’ve built against love. Until you’ve removed every single stone from your Rapunzel tower yourself and reached the bottom, where you stop protecting yourself. So that closeness and love can flow.
Here’s our Healing Journey for you to resolve the deepest parental wounds from the past at their root:
Heart Opening – Healing Journey
With love,
Sabrina Spinnler