The woman is afraid to admit her feelings.The man is afraid to admit his true strength.
He doesn’t have to feel the same way you do, but only have the strength to let you feel everything and give her the space to heal both of you.
The woman brings heaven to earth so that the man can make heaven out of earth.
Femininity:
The feminine is PASSIVE, CREATIVE, and PRODUCING.
It is the energy that gives birth to life and visions. It radiates devotion and, at the same time, power. Its basic perception is intuition and FEELINGS. Unlike men, it is connected to the divine from birth. It possesses knowledge that cannot be learned. Unfortunately, due to social conditioning, it forgets this very quickly.
It brings heaven to earth, and this is a dormant, already formed, receptive energy. Its task is to remain with itself and to hold this energy so that the divine can be transferred/transformed into the material (through masculinity).
Women have a cycle and go around in circles.
Therefore, she needs the masculine to be controlled and guided. She needs the space from him, so that all her feelings are welcome. So that she remains connected and connected to the higher source.
Her emotions are what ultimately enable healing for HER and HIM.
Her energy flows in all directions, while the man’s is linear. She cannot transform her energy alone, not into goals and not into a system. To do this, she must not only trust the masculine, but above all, trust herself. Many women are afraid of surrender because they believe they are giving up and losing themselves in the other person, and that he would then have power over them.
But the woman doesn’t surrender to the man—she surrenders to herself.
Her greatest task is to keep her ENERGY high and stable. To allow her feelings—LIGHT AND SHADOW—to flow through herself without judging them or wanting to be rescued. She must remain connected, orient herself upwards, and receive impulses.
Masculinity:
The masculine is ACTIVE, STRUCTURED, and STABILITY.
His basic perception is thinking.
His task is to allow the earth to grow into the sky.
Unlike the woman, he doesn’t have direct access; he receives the transformed energy through the woman. He is essentially a knight of the heart, protecting and guarding his source.
To do this, the man must be willing to allow himself to be flooded by the feminine. He absorbs the creative element within himself in order to then guide it. To do this, he must allow her to FEEL everything and be flooded through him, as if by a wave that kills everything that isn’t REAL and pure love.
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It is not about the heart of the man, it is about the heart of the woman.
The man allows himself to be permeated by the divine, feminine principle and roots it in the earth, where creation and structure connect. This is only possible with LOVE. Only LOVE has the power to transform duality on earth into polarity and create a paradise from the earth.
He gets along well with the earth, however, and that is often enough for him. The man is rather lazy in his development.
Taking responsibility for the wounded boy within himself often displeases him. Femininity is rather suspect and intangible to him. In his mind, he is the king, and this is completely familiar to him.
He does not understand the EMOTIONAL WORLD of the creative and therefore readily rejects it. Loss of control and, at times, fear of death flood him.
A conscious woman can recognize him at his core, and thus he is forced to heal his light and shadow aspects (Father-mother issues).
He doesn’t particularly like that. His task is to trust the feminine and protect it like the apple of his eye, and to open himself to emotional growth; otherwise, he will spend his entire life PERFORMING and moving in the same direction.
She enables the man, who actively drives impulses, to accelerate his growth and, through the feminine, stimulate him to further new impulses, which in turn ensure that he can live and demonstrate his greatness.
Only a woman who is at peace with herself can bring her impulses to a higher level.
How can all of this happen in connection?
When devotion arises, the man will automatically experience healing through the release of feminine energy.
But this only works if MAN AND WOMAN have taken equal responsibility for their own shadow and light aspects.
This means giving up security, the familiar, and turning one’s attention inward to create stability there. Men and women often seek this support externally. Women from men seek it through validation. Men seek it through a prestigious job, money, or something similar.
Saint and whore (female/male) must first be integrated within each individual!
The polarity, the acceptance of one’s own imperfection and one’s perfection within, in order to then merge externally and thus be ready to create a life of abundance on all levels.
But this only works if both men and women have taken equal responsibility for their own shadow and light aspects.
This means giving up the security, the familiar, and turning one’s attention INWARD to create stability there. Men and women often seek this support externally. A woman from a man through validation. A man through a prestigious job, money, or something similar.
Saint and whore (female/male) must first be integrated within each individual!
The polarity, the acceptance of one’s own imperfection and perfection within, in order to then merge externally and thus be ready to create a life of abundance on all levels.
Otherwise, you’re throwing your pain at the other person’s feet and you are wanting that person, instead of you, takes over the responsibility and that he or she resolves it for you.
That’s why many men are PASSIVE (avoidant) and many women are ACTIVE (needy).
You’re allowed to have this pain and don’t necessarily have to heal it alone before a deep encounter, but you must be willing to accept that it belongs to you. It’s just watching you as you let it flow through you and heal yourself. You don’t hand it over. This is a completely new energy movement.
That requires a lot of COURAGE. It’s the revelation of your SELF.
He/She doesn’t want to bear the other person’s pain, but only gives the possibility and permission that everything MAY BE.
As long as we believe that feeling through our shadow parts and conditioning destroys us instead of healing us, DEPTH, CONNECTION, and SEPARATION remain. In truth, it also destroys everything that isn’t LOVE.
The truth sets you free, but first it destroys you!
Her surrender: He holds the space for it because he knows that IF SHE IS ALLOWED TO FEEL EVERYTHING, he will be filled with the energy he needs to fully arrive (with himself!!) and express his masculinity, leaving the wounded boy behind. The little boy who learned that love and femininity are negotiable.
She doesn’t necessarily need him to surrender, but to amplify the energy that will take them both to the next level.
Yes, men and women are allowed to cry. Here they feel their suppressed light and presence, their true BEING. Light and shadow simultaneously!
All parts are integrated and then transformed into the highest form of self-expression and one’s own POWER. Yes, this affects business, money, and all areas of life.
Every encounter is a reflection of your inner parts. The best compass of all and the fastest path to yourself. If you are willing not to run away, to expect nothing from others, but to SURRENDER and STAY. To endure it.
The shame, the pain, the guilt.
Only then you will have complete access to your love, presence, and power. It has the potential to take your life to a whole new level.
We all want to have happy relationships that are good for us.
We want to get rid of the bad feelings.
We judge ourselves, withdraw… There are dozens of coaches on the market on the subject of attachment types and much more.
But what we really need is the willingness to recognize that we don’t find ourselves in the light, but behind the pain.
To transform the conditioning that prevents you from living your full potential, you are cordially invited to participate in one of our workshops, seminars, or coaching programs.
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